Ghosted - meaning - to be ghost is for someone you’ve been in involved with in some intimate way and have been in communication with for a period of time who suddenly for no reason at all cuts all communication with you. 

80% of millennial daters all have admittedly been subject to being ghosted in recent years. 

Why this happens is a mystery, but if you’ve been in this situation before where someone you care about just cuts you out and ghosts you, try not to worry so much about it and think that you’ve done something wrong. A “Ghoster” is an insecure person who does not know how to deal where their own emotions and instead of talking about them, they choose to ignore the situation all together... It’s actually quite sad because it leaves a both parties involved feeling quite lost and confused. 

So if your reading this chances are you’ve been ghosted, which is a very cringe-worthy situation that no one should have to deal with but before you send that desperate text ( while sober or drunk ) take a step back and let me guide you on what to do if you’ve been ghosted. 

Give it some time 

Give that person ample time to respond before you start to over-think and eventually over react and make things worse. Believe me when I say that is will cut out a lot of unnecessary drama and embarrassment! If you’ve contact them in the morning hours and you haven’t heard back from them by lunch, just take a step back and breath. 

Chances are they are just busy, it’s easy to think that most people hang on to their iPhones all day waiting for some social interaction however most working people just can’t respond at the speed of light like we would want them to. However, if you’ve texted and have been left on read, and still no response then instead of getting upset still give it time. You may still get your explanation.. just a little later.

Now if afternoon turns into late night and then morning again, still with no response? It’s safe to say you are being ghosted. Leaving you with 2 options. 

Hit them up again? 

Stay silent. 

Personally I’d take the ladder however, I know there are a few of you out there who are way to  curious and need an answer. But before you go sending another text think about the consequences of the situation. I know what you’re feeling must be humiliating and it must be giving you knots in your stomach, but imagine actually sending them one more text and still not getting a response? You’ll be left feeling even more confused and worse then you did before. 

I would never give advice that I wouldn’t take myself, staying silent may be the hardest thing you can do but reaching out will just make you feel and look crazy. Sorry to be blunt but it’s true and you know it! You could still send a text asking if they’re OK or if something is wrong. But in my experience it leaves you still with no answer. If they wanted to respond they would. It truly isn’t that difficult. 

So instead of driving yourself crazy about what to say my advice is to stay busy. If you’re struggling really hard, delete their number out of your phone temporarily. Allow yourself some time and space to reflect on the relationship and truly ask yourself if this was truly a person that you really need in your life? Is this someone you really had a connection with? Is it a person that you would risk further embarrassment for? Do you truly deserve to be ignored?

After asking yourself some of those questions I’m sure you’ll come to the realization that you are too damn amazing to settle for anything less than you deserve. If this “ ghoster “ cannot spare two minutes to text you back then they are not Worth One second of your attention.

However if you are still struggling after some time and even possibly responding and truly feel like you need further help or assistance feel free to call me and we can take a look to see if there was truly a connection between the both of you and if there is some sort of spiritual issue that might be causing the disconnect. 

Once you call me we can perform a meditation analysis that will allow us to determine whether or not this person is truly “ghosting” you or not. 

Most people have some fears when it comes up to relationships, commitment fears, intimacy fears etc.. You might be dealing with a person that has some of these issues and if so I can definitely help you work them out and salvage your relationship, making it better than it was before. 

Call 424-302-8035 for your consultation and meditation analysis today. You might need one of my spell packages to help you remove some of the obstacles in your way preventing you from being with the object of your desire.