What’s the difference between witchcraft and The law of attraction.

The difference between Witchcraft the law of attraction can be defined by this Quote: 

 Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare

That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet” 


Witchcraft and the law of attraction are quite similar. In fact, the law of attraction stems from Witchcraft. Witchcraft was the first of many variations regarding manifestation techniques. After many years of discrimination, public acts of antagonism, displays of contempt, death threats and straight up killings, which is got clever and decided to change things up. We no longer were known as the pointy hat wearing, broom riding, cauldron using women we were once before. 

Just like that with all of that hate and discrimination gave birth to what we now know as new age practices or what some call “the secret” or “The law of attraction” 

Us witches were the OG manifestation gurus. The first ones to believe that an alternate reality was possible and actually created before our very own eyes and once this realization was made we started to do the same for others around us and at some point or another somebody came along and decided oh no this is too much power for one group, it must be evil! 

I have to stop myself there with this conversation because I can continue going on and on and on complaining about all of these people who have put witches down for everything that they’ve done. If you look around it is the very reason why so many people have accomplished so much of what  they have to this day. Not only that it has been the root of all spiritual practices around the world and we barely get any recognition for it. 

If you do a deep dive on Google you’ll find that witchcraft became more popular during the Salem witch trials, we won’t get into detail about that here but basically that’s where the main stream version of witchcraft came about in the United States. All of the stem from the witch trials that went on in Europe from the 14th to the 18th century. 

Pop culture would have you believe that witchcraft is the villain in every story. It’s always the same, a witch or warlock (male witch” is somehow the evil culprit behind  soulmates being split apart or people falling ill unexpectedly. Don’t get me wrong I love watching the vampire diaries but it’s just not reality. I will say though However Bonnie Bennett is a kick ass witch. 

( Although black magic does exists, it is not the reason for every bad thing that happens in everyone’s life.

The time has come to set the record straight, the difference between these two practices are minuscule and major all at once. 

Where the law of attraction practices using vibrational energy from the mind body and spirit to attract love, money or happiness in some aspects of life. Although in more recent years we have seen the use of vision boards or dream boxes. The practice of law of attraction is just one aspect The art of manifestation of one’s dreams coming to life.  

Witchcraft is able to do all the same, witchcraft also uses energy from within the mind body and spirit to help attract and call upon energy that matches what you desire. With witchcraft we are also able to pull in energy vibrations from outside sources to manifest even quicker results whilst clearing out old negativity or negative energy and helping you heal from past trauma along with receiving insight and intervention from spirit and divine energy. 

With witchcraft we also use tools or Materials such as healing crystals( natural or organically sourced), essential oil, Ocean or river water, herbs, roots, botanicals, plants, celestial events, spiritual vibration energy, candles, incense and the Moon cycle As sources of energy and power. 

Tools can vary from daggers and altar cloths to Chalices and cauldrons, vases, chords and rope. Some of these things can even be found in your very own kitchen. All of which have a purpose and all of which are subject to preference. 


Each Witch has her own way of going about her still work. What I love to tell people is that if you have ever done anything that has even resembled a ritual, you are a practicing Witch yourself! I’m sure there is that one thing that everyone does in their daily routine that just feels right when they do it that certain way. I am also positive that all the days were that certain “Thing“ hasn’t been accomplished, the day is just not the same. That is a ritual, Rituals are spells that we knowingly and unknowingly cast. 


You just need to know which ones serve you and which ones do not. I am a practicing white-magic witch. I always work with the flow of energy, positivity & all things good and light in this universe. My goal and intention every single day is to help change someone’s life for the better in anyway I can. Never to harm and never to hurt anyone! 

I truly believe that every other spiritual practice has come from a long line of witchcraft.

Reiki healing, reiki therapy, chakra balancing, wellness center, meditation, spiritual awakening, chakra alignment, spiritual cleansing, spiritual manifestation, mediumship, psychic readers, tarot, Palm reading, tea leaf reading, spiritual guidance, shamans, gurus and spiritual practitioners of all cultures stems from some sort of Witchcraft. 

Next time you hear Esther hicks talk about the law of attraction just picture a little witch hat on top of her head! 😂 

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How To Shine With 3-6-9

Manifesting With Witchcraft

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Manifestation

Simple but affective magic

You can dream all you want,

But what good will it do?

It's just wishful thinking,

Not a plan to pursue!

Or so says the pessimist. But is the pessimist correct?

Dream all you can,

It's all you need do,

Simply desire it sincerely,

It will certainly come true!

Or so says the optimist. But is the optimist correct?

Dreams offer possibilities,

Of the wonders that can ensue,

When manifesting and witchcraft,

Join forces anew.

Or so says the pragmatist. But is the pragmatist correct?

Well, as a practicing witch and full-time professional healer/counselor, I can absolutely attest to the fact that it is the pragmatist who is correct here. When it comes to manifesting, my loyal readers, you can dismiss the pessimism of the uninitiated. They espouse dogmatic skepticism for its own sake and stubbornly refuse to accept any empirical evidence that doesn't come directly from a white-coated laboratory scientist. Such skeptics try to explain away anything even remotely connected to the supernatural realm. The mere mention of witchcraft, for instance, is sure to induce a conniption fit. A skeptical acquaintance of mine prefers to suffer in the name of "rationality" rather than allow himself to partake of what the supernatural world has to offer. Once, when he was in the market for a new car, I offered him some free advice. He was keen on my idea...until he learned that my insights came about during a meditation session. So, he chose a car that I had advised was wrong for him. One year, one break-in, one breakdown, one nasty hailstorm, and one major accident later, he traded it in. But, of course, that was all coincidence!


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Likewise, dear reader, you can just as readily dismiss the naive optimist. Only people who are at the point of desperation believe that merely wishing for an outcome will bring it about. Unfortunately, there is no paucity of charlatanism out there willing to mislead sincere, hopeful individuals in order to make a quick buck or to garner online notoriety. So-called "experts" in manifesting will lead you to believe that the love of your life and a world of riches are yours for the taking if you just right down what you want in the manner they suggest. One poor woman I met was the victim of miracle manifestation promises. She wanted a better job, and she very much wanted to meet the man of her dreams. So, she followed some dubious online advice and wrote down her wishes everyday, with the belief that sincere desire and a positive mindset was all that was needed. Alas, it wasn't. Sadly, while patiently focused on desiring and believing, she likely lost out on real opportunities to advance her career and to meet desirable men.


My pragmatic approach to manifesting new realities offers a sensible middle ground, one that I have put to the test countless times over the years. You may have heard of the 3-6-9 approach to manifesting, which is the one I endorse. BUT! I do NOT endorse the simplistic, ubiquitous 3-6-9 internet recipes for manifestation. Manifestation does indeed work, but there is much more to the story than most sources will admit. In my next blog post, I'll go into some of the details. Suffice it to say for now that, as powerful as manifestation can be, very few people can manage it successfully on their own. Moreover, manifesting becomes far more powerful once the "secret sauce" is added--witchcraft. You might be wondering why the last lines of my little poem refer to manifesting and witchcraft joining forces anew. Doesn't "anew" imply that they were once used in conjunction? It does. Somehow over the years, this deep and vital connection was nearly forgotten. As a young girl, before my mother informed me that I was a witch, I thought that anyone could manifest, because it came naturally to me. Nowadays, I make use of powerful spells to help my clients manifest. Stay tuned for more on how to manifest properly and for some true accounts of authentic manifestation! In the meantime, feel free to call or text me at (424) 302-8035 and we'll get you started right away--properly--no false hopes, no gimmicks.

Mercury in Retrograde

Keep Your Relationship Moving Forward While Mercury Runs in Reverse!

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Retrograde
comes from the Latin retrogradus, meaning to step back. When a planet is in retrograde, it reverses its nightly eastward progress in the sky. After a brief excursion to the west, the planet then loops back, changing course once more and proceeding "normally." All planets do this. They don't literally stop in their orbit about the sun and reverse direction, only to stop again and resume going forward. However, relative to the background stars, this is exactly what they appear to do. In ancient times this mysterious motion was explained away by complicated epicycles in planets' orbits around the Earth. Nowadays, we know that retrograde motion is a visual effect resulting from the fact that the planets in our solar system orbit the sun at different speeds. When Earth overtakes Mars, or when Mercury passes Earth, for several weeks we witness the planet marching backwards relative to its usual progression through the constellations. Mercury is currently in retrograde. In this blog post, I will share with you why this matters and how it can affect your relationship.


Although the phenomenon is understood from a scientific perspective, one should not allow this to be an excuse for complacency. There's more than science going on here, folks! It would be foolish to assume that just because you can explain a phenomenon you don't have to be wary of it. Geologists can explain why volcanoes erupt, but only a foolish geologist would dismiss the danger of an eruption. A marine biologist can explain the form and function of the teeth of the great white shark, but you won't catch these scientists hanging out with such predators unprotected. To overlook such dangers thanks to scientific understanding would be an act of hubris that could have dire consequences. Likewise, to say "oh, yeah, astronomers know why Mercury is in retrograde, so it's no big deal" would demonstrate a lack of humility and would be a foolish conclusion to jump to.


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It is undoubtedly true that what goes on in the heavens influences what happens here on Earth. This universal truth has been known from time immemorial, which is why astrology has been studied and developed by every culture imaginable. As much as science paves the way for impressive technologies and labor-saving machines, we mustn't forget that there is much that science cannot explain--nor ever will. We here on Earth are not separate from the stellar tapestry of the celestial sphere, or the planets that wander through it. Just as humans possess complex, interconnected webs of social relationships, the innumerable celestial bodies exhibit organization too, but on a cosmic scale. It is wise to appreciate what the heavens have to offer, pay heed to our starry messengers, and listen attentively when our planetary neighbors speak.

When it comes to communication, Mercury is instrumental. And as you will certainly agree, communication is vital for a well-functioning relationship. Therefore, it will come as no surprise that when Mercury is in retrograde, relationships are prone strains due to miscommunication. You may have already noticed this over the past few days. Mercury is also quite relevant when it comes to compacts between individuals. For these reasons, I have been advising my clients for years to venture forth cautiously with regard to any important relationship decisions during the weeks that Mercury backtracks in sky, and to refrain from entering into important agreements--or at least take precautions before proceeding. The last thing you want is for a plan to go awry or for someone to back out of an agreement once Mercury resumes its normal course. You also want to avoid having your partner misconstrue your words (or vice versa) on account of garbled communication.
Obviously, though, you can't simply stop communicating with your partner while you wait for Venus to pass our planet by, and there may be business or relationship opportunities that would be imprudent to let slip by during this time. This is where the precautions I alluded to above come into play. Having advised countless clients on the astrological implications relating to their decision making and their relationships, I have found that in almost all cases it is very possible for people to "play it safe" without forgoing opportunities. The necessary ingredient is knowledgeable, professional advice from someone who has spent decades guiding people through turbulent times. No two individuals are identical. Therefore, my tact is to connect with a client on a deep and spiritual level, employ my skills in witchcraft to identify their particular potential communication pitfalls, and discern precisely what astrological significance must be taken into account when analyzing various potential decisions. Witchcraft and astrology, when conducted properly, make a powerful combination! Once this preliminary work has been accomplished, I design tailor-made protective spells to prevent your relationship from going into retrograde, or to ensure that any decisions you make during this time are as sound as possible.
My grandmother, who was a distinguished, powerful witch, was fond of saying:
The wise among us revere the stars,While the ignorant look askance.The witch interprets the celestial dance,Making the wisdom of the heavens ours!
One of my grandmother's many specialities was employing witchcraft to help peoplemake better sense of the vast universe we inhabit and properly utilize the information to which she, as a born witch, was able to glean. As a young girl, she helped me develop my innate skills, and I like to think that she would be very proud of the fact that now, as an adult witch, I routinely help people in a similar manner. Moreover, she'd be proud of the great joy and satisfaction that I experience upon seeing people flourish and benefit from my spells. I would be delighted to help you next! Just text or call me at (424) 302-8035 and we'll make certain that nothing in your life will be "going retro" anytime soon!

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Who's Cheatin' Who? A Beginner's Guide to Spotting & Dealing With Infidelity
Who's Cheatin' Who?
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Semper Fidelis. This is the motto of the United States Marine Corp. It is Latin for Always Faithful. It is a motto that Marines take seriously, a commitment of their loyalty to their country. We all make commitments in life, but how many of us take seriously the concept of semper fidelis? Unfortunately, research shows that when it comes to relationships, the always in the motto tends to morph into mostly or sometimes.

Indeed, deception in one form or another, it turns out, is fairly common. Whether it be in the form of subtle manipulation, lying, or cheating, even ostensibly completely faithful, loving partners are prone to engage in this behavior at times. In this blog post I will focus on cheating in particular by outlining three tips to serve as a handy guide to making you aware when it could be occurring, and for dealing with it if it does occur. Let's face it, if your guy or girl is cheating on you, you need to know!


Tip 1: Rose-colored glasses might be cute, but don't wear them all the time!
Psychologists have long known that people tend to view the world they wish to perceive it. We consistently encounter situations, articles, and other people with preconceived notions. We therefore go out of our way to seek evidence that supports our world view, and our tendency is to dismiss evidence contrary to it. This phenomenon is called confirmation bias, and it pervades our lives in subtle but insidious ways--everything from politics to relationships--and we are generally completely unaware when it is occuring. Economists, in fact, have created an entire subdiscipline known as behavioral economics devoted to how this and other related phenomena affect our economic decision making. When it comes to significant others, especially when we're in love, it's nearly impossible for us not to mentally magnify their positive attributes while deemphasizing (or overlooking entirely) their faults. Clearly, it's good to be tolerant of others' faults, but not blind to them, especially if said fault is a tendency to be unfaithful.


So how do we avoid being blinded by our own biases and wishful thinking? Making a real effort to be honest with yourself and to think critically is a good start, but even after years of helping clients "remove their blinders," I have never found such will power to be sufficient. It always takes a dispassionate, outside observer to bring the truth into focus, preferably an expert with years of experience.


Tip 2: Think first, accuse second!
Even with our rose-colored glasses off, psychological studies make clear that humans are poor judges of character. It turns out that trained interrogators aren't much better than the rest of us when it comes to determining whether someone is telling the truth or not. If you suspect your partner might be acting unfaithfully, simply asking something like "Are you seeing someone else?" is unhelpful and possibly even counterproductive. The answer you receive will almost certainly be worthless. Why? Well, because you don't need to be psychic to predict it in advance: "Of course not! How could you even think such a thing?" Moreover, if the response is a lie, you won't know it. Unless the cheater subconsciously wants to be caught, he or she has mentally rehearsed this response a thousand times, motivated by fear of getting caught. So, not only does your inquiry yield no useful information, you've tipped your hand regarding your suspicions!


So what is the best way to confront your partner when you suspect infidelity? The best course of action is to restrain your emotions and be patient. Because this is far easier said than done, it is wise to seek some support to help you sort out your thoughts as well as the evidence. I help clients do this on a regular basis. Many are pleasantly surprised and relieved to learn that their suspicions were misplaced, while for others my meditations and readings reveal that the infidelity is not only real but far more extensive than they had thought. Either way, though, they come away armed with the truth and better equipped to deal with the situation properly.

Tip 3: Mum's the word!

This brings us to the all-important question...what to do when infidelity is confirmed. The proper course of action is dependent on the individual and on the type of relationship. If the infidelity means that you can no longer remain together, I generally advise refraining from immediately confronting your partner. Instead of tipping your hand, let your partner go on for a while believing you're none the wiser, while you make preparations for a favorable break-up or divorce, as the case may be. In particular, where divorce is concerned, you can gather evidence that will lead to a more favorable settlement for you. For people who are not married but cohabitating, break-ups are often messy, contentious affairs, replete with fights over who owns what and who is owed what. Here again, you can take advantage of the information asymmetry and make arrangements in advance--before your partner can raise objections or interfere with your plans. Married or not, the challenge is not allowing your partner to pick up on your emotions while you're getting things in order. This is where spell work comes into play. The proper concealing spells will help keep your partner in the dark about your discovery until the time is right.


What if the cheating, in your estimation, is hurtful but not necessarily a death sentence for your relationship? Well, in this case the approach is quite different. For my clients who wish to repair a relationship after infidelity (either their partner's or their own), I usually still recommend remaining mum. This gives us time to discover the underlying causes. People cheat for a reason. Sometimes it is discontent; sometimes it is loneliness. Often feelings of inadequacy are involved. Ironically, a fear of losing you can drive your partner to cheat! Insecurity manifests itself in myriad ways. The point is that I must first discern which factors are involved in motivating the infidelity, which entails meditation and psychic work. Once this is complete, I can determine the exact type of love spell most appropriate for your situation. Over my career, my success rate with regard to relationship repair is close to 100%. But be forewarned...if it becomes evident during the course of my meditations that your partner is a serial philanderer, or someone whose deception will continue to hurt you, I will not cast a spell to temporarily repair your relationship. Ethical considerations prevent me from doing so. Plus, sometimes it's best to cut your losses.


In a future blog post I will address the matter of what proactive steps you can take to stave off cheating in the first place. For now, if you find yourself with suspicions, contact me right away at (424) 302-8035 so that we can begin probing into the matter. Don't be a passive victim. You deserve to know the truth, and you deserve to have someone on your side! In the meantime, semper fidelis!

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New years RESOLUTIONs! It Is Hereby Resolved! (Or So I Thought?)
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The Right Way to Make a Resolution

"From this day forward, I vow to give up pizza, start saving more money, go running five days a week, and read more books." Sound familiar? Probably so. And I bet that nowadays whenever you're sitting in front of the TV eating pizza and trying not to think about the fact that you could be running or reading instead, or that you could be having a salad, you wish that you had more will power, right? Well, you'll be glad to know that it's not really about will power! It's about proper planning, guidance, and support.

About the only thing as common as a New Years' resolution this time of year is an unresolved New Year's resolution in February. Have you made one only to let it fall by the wayside shortly thereafter? If you're like most Americans, the answer is a resounding yes. Resolutions are bound to fail unless done properly. In this post I will outline the basic steps involved in resolution success. If you've only experienced disappointment, now is the time for a "resolution revolution"! Literally hundreds of my clients in past years have followed my guidance and been blessed with real success.

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Setting yourself up for success.

* Goal Selection: Goals must be talked through with a passionate and straightforward coach/counselor. One goal is to be chosen, with a second on "standby." It is easy to add a second goal later on. The tough part for people is even remaining committed to one. A single goal will be manageable. If there are two or more, psychology is such that a setback in one can "contaminate" the other. Therefore, one goal will be the focus.

* Goal Framing: Once selected, a goal must be framed in specific, achievable terms. Vague goals such as "I will lose weight this year" or "I will save more money" are to be avoided. I help my clients reframe goals like this as "this year, I will lose a half of a pound per week on average for a total of 25 pounds" and "I will save no less than 10% of weekly paycheck for the entire year, putting it in my savings account." Though they'd be tailored to the individual I'm counseling, notice their specificity of the goals. They are also realistic, achievable and measurable. They lend themselves to a rational, targeted approach. Goal framing takes experience and assisted reflection. Notice the word averagein the weight loss example. I might advise a particular client who is prone to looking for excuses to give up on goals to include this word because body weight naturally fluctuates, and it's important not to let "noise" in the data distract from the longer-term trend.


* Objectives: To increase the chance of success, I recommend breaking down a goal into a handful of objectives. To illustrate, here's a case in point involving an actual client. With her permission, I am sketching out her success story here.


Many years ago I cast some spells to help a young Parisian client find the "man of her dreams." It was a challenging case because my meditations had indicated that she was meant to be with an American man from the east coast. Nonetheless, the spells were successful, and several months later she met her now-husband in a quaint art museum in France while he was vacationing from New York. The year after the wedding, she sought guidance in how to attain the self-discipline necessary to overcome the limitations on her free time. Unhappy with her productivity at work and her need to constantly bring it home, she lamented not being able to spend more quality time with her husband. She wished to make their bond even stronger but couldn't do it without a little professional help.


Once the goal was clarified and properly framed, we set to work on objectives. A tarot reading made evident that she tended to allow herself to be imposed upon by friends and colleagues in ways she wasn't even aware of, and also that negativity tended to invade her thoughts at an unconscious level whenever she interacted with certain personality types. Therefore, some of her several objectives were: setting up inviolable personal boundaries; building self-confidence to facilitate specific interpersonal relationships that I won't go into here; and specifically addressing the negativity issue. The first two were accomplished thanks to her persistence and my ongoing support. The negativity was dealt with primarily by spell work. Her patient efforts paid off, and I'm proud to say that she and husband (and now two little ones) are living happily in a small town in southern France. Her home office was recently converted into a child's bedroom...bringing work home is a thing of the past.


* Accountability: I will be personally invested in your success and will periodically follow-up with you on your progress. Furthermore, if you're amenable to it, I will have one of my assistants touch base with you on a regular basis to ensure you don't slip and, if you do, that you get right back up on your feet! I've found that this caring, research-backed, method of helping clients serves as a strong incentive to stick with their commitments by holding them accountable.

* Dealing with setbacks: First and foremost, we aim to avoid them through careful planning of goals and objectives and by addressing accountability. But setbacks can and do happen even in the best of situations. Therefore, it is prudent to plan for such an eventuality. Here's what my clients tend to experience before coming to me:

- "Well, I missed exercising yesterday and blew my ten-day streak. I might as well skip today too."

- "I ate chocolate cake last night. My diet is blown. Let's order a pizza."

- "I didn't meet my saving target last week. Maybe I should lower my expectations."

These sorts of responses to setbacks are completely natural and might even sound familiar. This is why I counsel each client on how to be prepared mentally for an inevitable setback. The right mindset, in place in advance, is a necessary ingredient of success. We will NOT allow a minor setback to be an excuse to give up!


* Expertise. Don't worry if you feel like you lack the technical proficiency to set or achieve a goal. Besides many years of experience myself, I've got ready access to a vast amount of expertise in the form of colleagues who work in fields as diverse as finance, nutrition science, and business. No one should ever shy away from a resolution on account of not being an expert in whatever field pertains...but it is prudent to have access to expertise when needed.


* Supernatural Assistance. Finally, and perhaps most important, is availing oneself of the powers of the Universe. My approach is to employ the best of what scientific research has to offer and to supplement it with the proven techniques of witchcraft and psychic intuition. This will give you the edge you've never had before! And as countless clients can attest, it works!


This overview, I trust, has left you feeling energized with regard to a resolution. I ask only that you put your faith in my tried and true methods. Call or text me at (424) 302-8035. The new year is upon us...and so is the new you!

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The Christmas Star, Offering Guidance in 2021
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The Star of Bethlehem ( The Christmas star )

a Solstice for the Ages.

We Three Kings of Orient are,

Bearing gifts we traverse afar,

Field and fountain,

Moor and mountain,

Following yonder Star.

These words, penned by John Henry Hopkins in 1857, instantly invoke a mental landscape of ancient simplicity entwined with supernatural awe: a barren plain featuring three Magi atop camels, laden with fineries, inexorably led on an epic journey, beckoned from remote lands by a mystical shining light in the heavens. Though much speculation surrounds the Star of Bethlehem, a.k.a., the Christmas Star, one thing for sure is that, on rare occasions, it recurs. In a matter of days, the world will behold the Christmas Star in all its glory, the most spectacular in centuries! In this post, we shall explore the significance of the Christmas Star, and to learn how to take advantage of this once in a lifetime opportunity. 


The year is now 1614. A wandering astrologer and mathematician named Johannes Kepler is casting horoscopes for European nobility and pondering the heavens. His ideas would go on to lay the foundation of modern astronomy. In this year, his calculations lead him to associate the Christmas Star that guided the Magi with a conjunction of Jupiter and Saturn. This same conjunction is about to occur again! Not only that, it will occur on a special day--the winter solstice. Indeed, on December 21, looking to the southwest just after sunset, you will witness this unique confluence of events for yourself. The planets will be so close in the sky that they will briefly shine almost as a single body. Saturn will be even closer to Jupiter than some of Jupiter's own moons! You don't have to be a professional astrologer to know how rare this is. The last such occurrence, in fact, was during Kepler's time--and it was disappointing compared to what's in store for us.


As wondrous as this event is, a word of caution is in order. Momentous astrological signs are always infused with information, at least for those who can interpret them. But understand that such signs can range from joyous to mundane to ominous. They might convey assurance of your life path, inform a business decision, signify the rekindling of a lost love, bring word of the dearly departed, or show the way forward during a rocky patch in your relationship. Equally likely, a sign might presage a preventable illness, shed light on someone of malevolent intent, reveal astonishing misdeeds of someone close to you, offer a tantalizing clue about an illicit affair, or forewarn of a pending but avoidable mishap. Whether an augury of good fortune or a portent of adversity, the information could be vital. Only the naive would look upon the Christmas Star as a mere token of good luck. Even among those for whom the Star does herald good tidings, this information is next to useless without the ability to interpret and implement it. Conversely, those with less auspicious news need not feel that they are at the mercy of the whims of fate. One must take the Christmas Star seriously and be proactive. 

I've worked with numerous clients from around the world who, in a past life, actually lived through a previous incarnation of the Christmas Star. The impact it had on their lives was quite varied and, to an untrained observer, seemingly random. No two individuals are alike, but through my work one commonality has become evident: sadly, without the requisite skills and knowledge, precious opportunities will be squandered and misfortunes will fail to be averted.  


The bottom line is this. Whatever the Christmas Star portends for you, you deserve to know about it! And you mustn't hesitate to act on the information. If it is something favorable, I can both interpret what it is and guide it to fruition. On the other hand, if it signals something worthy of caution, this will also be revealed during a session, and I will provide you with appropriate steps to take to be protected. It simply doesn't make sense to blithely disregard this sign. When blessed with a once in a lifetime opportunity, the wise seize the moment; the arrogant and dismissive let it slip past...and go on to regret it.  


In honor of this great event, and after lengthy meditation, I've taken the liberty of modifying the chorus of Hopkins's famous carol:


O Star of Wonder, Star of Night,

Star with Secrets burning Bright,

Westward reeling,

Still revealing,

Guide us to Thy surprising Insight.


Make this insight your own.
Call me today at 424-302-8035.

Samantha Phillips
How to Lose a Guy or Girl In 10 Ways
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You might not be Kate Hudson...although I have advised many celebrities in the past. Even if you're not a Kate, you may have unwittingly employed some of her techniques when it comes to losing a guy. And, fellas, admit it, you're in the same boat, right? Well, not to worry. Let's have a little primer on how to avoid some of the main relationship pitfalls, shall we? The following are in no particular order, but consider each carefully and assess yourself honestly.

Here you’ll learn How you’ll lose a guy or girl in 10 days or ways….

1. "I want you...so much that I'm not willing to share." Not exactly the best signal to send to someone you truly want to hang on to. Sure, it's nice to be wanted, but not to the extent that you feel smothered. People want to feel highly desired without losing their sense of freedom. This doesn't have to be as delicate of a balancing act as it might sound, though. Make your guy or gal feel loved but not possessed. When in doubt, err on the side of tolerating freedom. Remember: "You won't see a ring if there's too much cling."


2. "Are you implying that I eat too much?" Just because your partner comments on your hearty appetite doesn't mean it's a subtle hint that you should lose weight. Likewise, you shouldn't construe that your cooking is underappreciated if he or she arrives 10 minutes late for dinner. Don't read too much into innocuous comments and actions. They're usually just that--innocuous. Key idea: To keep the relationship intact, don't overreact!


3. "But these sweatpants are so comfy, and the holes in my flannel shirt are barely noticeable." There's nothing wrong with being yourself and dressing comfortably. But make that special someone feel special by dressing up once in a while, especially on your date night. It signals that you're proud to be with this person and willing to invest a little effort into not only looking presentable in public but in making yourself attractive. Looking your best makes you more desirable in two ways--by being more physically attractive and, less obviously, by sending the message that you want you partner to desire you. Thus take note: "A bit of glamour and fashion can sustain the passion."


4. "No, I'm absolutely not being argumentative!" We all know people who seem to thrive on quibbling, fault-finding, and bickering. Less apparent is when we ourselves are in "fight-mode." An exhausting day, work stress, a traffic jam, or even something as simple as a spilled up of coffee can prime us to be argumentative, and the easiest target is the one we love most. This counterproductive way of venting our ire only exacerbates the problem, as it is our partner who is best positioned to help alleviate the underlying stress--but not when he or she feels picked on, attacked, or nagged. Avoid being critical. The next time you find yourself "itching for a fight," don't scratch that itch with you partner; opt instead for a loving embrace and strengthen your relationship in the process. Consider this: If there's a future in sight, it's best not to fight.


5. "Sure, honey, whatever you say." Number 4 notwithstanding, no one wants to be with a pushover. People who don't stand up for themselves, or do so only timidly, might seem easy to get along with, but resentment tends to build up. Also, a lack of assertiveness can make your partner feel ill at ease, not knowing whether you're content with the relationship, or, fearing that if you're not content, he or she wouldn't know how to remedy it. Plus, lively conversation and spicy romance are enhanced by a little feistiness on occasion. In general: Be generous and kind, but do speak your mind.


6. "Well, I wouldn't come across as bossy if you simply did things my way." Relationships involve give and take. While obviously true, this important tenet is easily overlooked when we interact with a loved one. We tend to vie for power in a relationship, often unconsciously, and this leads to friction. Before you insist on something, ask yourself, Is this really a big deal? Big enough to complain about? If not, keep mum. If it really is a big deal, mention it without coming across as overbearing. Don't let a request come across as an order. Your partner will respect this approach. Being bossy and demanding leads to a relationship dead end. We can sum it up this way: It will be much to your chagrin if you never give in.


7. "The weather is horrible, my boss is a jerk, and the kitchen is a disaster." All these things may be true. However, dwelling on these conditions and reiterating them to your partner does little toward changing them. If it's something you cannot change (like the weather), why complain about it in the first place? If change is possible, be proactive rather than brooding over how bad things are. Doing the latter simply detracts from the quality time you have available to spend with the special person in your life. Negativity breeds more of itself. Fortunately, positivity is just as contagious. It will go a long way toward making a relationship last. Keep this in mind: "If you continually assume the worst, your relationship will be cursed."


8. "I know it's just a happy hour get-together after work, but that coworker who has a crush on you will probably show up." Jealousy sometimes goes hand-in-hand with the clinginess I discussed above, but it is more insidious. Jealousy can be devastating for a relationship. Unfortunately, it is easier to spot it than it is to curb it. Once again, there is a delicate balance to achieve. While your partner would feel hurt if you didn't react at all when a potential rival vies for his or her attention, you mustn't go overboard. Overt jealousy could make your partner look upon said rival as someone who potentially has more to offer than you do. Otherwise, why would you be fretting? Conversely, if you hadn't reacted jealously, he or she might never have even considered this person in a romantic light. Moreover, refraining from jealous overreactions displays confidence in your own desirability--a trait that makes you more irresistible! Never forget: A jealous reaction can diminish your attraction.


9. "Because I've always done it this, that's why!" Closed-mindedness is yet another good way to push a partner away. It's natural for us to set up routines and establish daily rhythms, and, in general, these help us to be functional and more productive. However, if we become too set in our ways, we close off potentially new and exciting avenues in life. This is especially true when it comes to a relationship, which can be viewed as two life paths that intersect and veer off in a common direction. Be open to your partner's thoughts and ideas. Don't be afraid to offer a critique, but don't dismiss suggestions out of hand simply because they entail something new or even radically different. It comes down to this: When you close your mind, you leave opportunities behind!


10. "What do you mean you don't believe in psychic powers?!" Number 9 outlines the danger of being closed-minded. But what if your partner is the one who is unwilling to be open-minded? Countless people I've helped over the years have complained of partners who are skeptical, or outright hostile, when it comes to seeking help from a psychic or witch. This is despite being the direct beneficiaries of my work! If your partner is dismissive or skeptical of your reaching out to a spiritual intuitive, don't worry--most partners come around to the effectiveness of such assistance once they see the positive effect it has on you and your relationship. In the meantime, don't hold your partner's skeptical against them. I recommend calmly explaining that relationship guidance from a gifted and trained professional psychic has proven benefits, but that it's okay to withhold judgement. The results will follow, and your partner will sheepishly concede that the doubts were unwarranted. I've seen it a thousand times! Furthermore, your partner will appreciate you more for proactively taking steps to strengthen the bond between you. Be patient with your partner as this lesson is learned so as not to inadvertently inhibit the benefits of the psychic insights as they are taking hold. There will inevitably be bumps in the relationship road, but when they occur, adhere to my final aphorism: When your relationship experiences a glitch, patiently consult with a witch!


The 10 points above are intended to serve as self-assessment tool. Consider it a holiday gift from me to you. After self-assessing, call me at 424-302-8035 for your consultation. I'll put my skills to work on your behalf and begin providing you with the highly specific insights you need to make your relationship stronger than ever!

Samantha Phillips
Is My Soulmate Out There? What About My Twin Flame?
What is a soulmate?

What is a soulmate?

Imagine: humans with four arms, two faces, four legs...sounds fanciful, perhaps even frightening, doesn't it? This, though, according to Greek myth as presented by Plato in his Symposium, was humanity's original state--until, that is, the gods came to see these presumably hideous creatures as a threat. Fortunately, rather than consign our progenitors to oblivion, Zeus decided to split these multi-limbed people in two. Thus halved and humbled, the resulting humans were destined to long for their missing halves. Herein lies one possible origin for the concept of soulmates.


These days, few of us take ancient myths seriously. Nonetheless, they often do harbor some truth and some insight into modern life. The existence of soulmates, for instance, is not something to be dismissed out of hand. In fact, to do so could be a grave error. Before I get into it, though, let's get some terminology on the table.


I'll preface these definitions by noting that there is considerable diversity of opinion on what exactly a soulmate is. The same can be said about a related concept--that of a twin flame. Authors debate about the nature of (and even the existence of) soulmates and twin flames, as well as the distinction between the two. That said, I will present my views, which are based on many years of study and meditation, from the perspective of a professional whose career entails helping people deal with questions concerning these very topics. As a spiritualist, a professional healer, a psychic, and a witch, I am uniquely positioned to shed some light and provide some clarity.


Soulmates are people who have a natural affinity for one another. But it goes beyond that. Much as Plato's version of the myth implies, soulmates, if they happen to encounter each other, will feel an immense attraction. They will experience a deep connection and, together, will make each other feel complete. Moreover, there is a gestalt principle at work here. By that I mean that, once united, their partnership is greater than the sum of their individual selves. The union of soulmates is a beautiful thing because it represents the fusion of two energies into something more powerful than when they were separate. Such a union transcends individuality. Everybody has at least one soulmate in this world. Unfortunately, random chance only rarely brings them together.


The notion of a twin flame is often used synonymously with that of a soulmate. However, there is a subtle but important distinction. For one, not everyone has a twin flame. In fact, twin flame encounters are quite rare, with perhaps only a few occurring in any given century. Some people say that twin flames are two pieces of the same soul that were once united. This, though, presupposes that a soul can be severed. It cannot. Therefore, it is better to think of the twin flame phenomenon as a soulmate encounter in its eternal and consummate form. Thus we have the ultimate in relationships, one that perpetuates throughout time, manifesting itself in past, present, and future lives.


The meeting of twin flames will instantly elicit intense passion within both you and your partner. The intensity will be substantial, to the point where a relationship might not even appear sustainable. As mentioned, though, it is destined to endure. Furthermore, a twin flame can serve as a catalyst for major life changes, including spiritual maturation and an enhanced compassion for those around you and, indeed, the world in general.


I can sum up what soulmates and twin flames have in common with a single word--complementarity. This is especially the case with soulmates, who, throughout the course of a lifelong relationship, complete each other, allowing a couple to experience together what would be inaccessible individually. This ranges from the sublime (true happiness and fulfillment) to the mundane (for instance, the soulmate of someone who is a good cook but a poor money manager might be someone who is inept in the kitchen but a whiz with finances).


This brings us to the crux of the matter: How does one go about finding his or her soulmate? Well, one thing for certain is that if you content yourself with "just letting it happen," you're almost certainly in for disappointment. As mentioned, only rarely do soulmates find each by pure chance. A wise course of action is to be proactive. If you've always felt that your soulmate is nowhere to be found, I can help you transform "no-where" into "now-here." That is, if your soulmate or twin flame is meant to come into your life, working together we can bring the process to fruition in the here and now. Call 424-302-8035 for your consultation today so that, with your input, I can create a tailor-made love spell package for you. Your soulmate awaits!

Samantha Phillips
Have you been ghosted?
By Isabella Phillips

By Isabella Phillips

Ghosted - meaning - to be ghost is for someone you’ve been in involved with in some intimate way and have been in communication with for a period of time who suddenly for no reason at all cuts all communication with you. 


80% of millennial daters all have admittedly been subject to being ghosted in recent years. 



Why this happens is a mystery, but if you’ve been in this situation before where someone you care about just cuts you out and ghosts you, try not to worry so much about it and think that you’ve done something wrong. A “Ghoster” is an insecure person who does not know how to deal where their own emotions and instead of talking about them, they choose to ignore the situation all together... It’s actually quite sad because it leaves a both parties involved feeling quite lost and confused. 



So if your reading this chances are you’ve been ghosted, which is a very cringe-worthy situation that no one should have to deal with but before you send that desperate text ( while sober or drunk ) take a step back and let me guide you on what to do if you’ve been ghosted. 




Give it some time 

Give that person ample time to respond before you start to over-think and eventually over react and make things worse. Believe me when I say that is will cut out a lot of unnecessary drama and embarrassment! If you’ve contact them in the morning hours and you haven’t heard back from them by lunch, just take a step back and breath. 


Chances are they are just busy, it’s easy to think that most people hang on to their iPhones all day waiting for some social interaction however most working people just can’t respond at the speed of light like we would want them to. However, if you’ve texted and have been left on read, and still no response then instead of getting upset still give it time. You may still get your explanation.. just a little later.


Now if afternoon turns into late night and then morning again, still with no response? It’s safe to say you are being ghosted. Leaving you with 2 options. 


Hit them up again? 

Stay silent. 


Personally I’d take the ladder however, I know there are a few of you out there who are way to  curious and need an answer. But before you go sending another text think about the consequences of the situation. I know what you’re feeling must be humiliating and it must be giving you knots in your stomach, but imagine actually sending them one more text and still not getting a response? You’ll be left feeling even more confused and worse then you did before. 


I would never give advice that I wouldn’t take myself, staying silent may be the hardest thing you can do but reaching out will just make you feel and look crazy. Sorry to be blunt but it’s true and you know it! You could still send a text asking if they’re OK or if something is wrong. But in my experience it leaves you still with no answer. If they wanted to respond they would. It truly isn’t that difficult. 



So instead of driving yourself crazy about what to say my advice is to stay busy. If you’re struggling really hard, delete their number out of your phone temporarily. Allow yourself some time and space to reflect on the relationship and truly ask yourself if this was truly a person that you really need in your life? Is this someone you really had a connection with? Is it a person that you would risk further embarrassment for? Do you truly deserve to be ignored?


After asking yourself some of those questions I’m sure you’ll come to the realization that you are too damn amazing to settle for anything less than you deserve. If this “ ghoster “ cannot spare two minutes to text you back then they are not Worth One second of your attention.



However if you are still struggling after some time and even possibly responding and truly feel like you need further help or assistance feel free to call me and we can take a look to see if there was truly a connection between the both of you and if there is some sort of spiritual issue that might be causing the disconnect. 


Once you call me we can perform a meditation analysis that will allow us to determine whether or not this person is truly “ghosting” you or not. 


Most people have some fears when it comes up to relationships, commitment fears, intimacy fears etc.. You might be dealing with a person that has some of these issues and if so I can definitely help you work them out and salvage your relationship, making it better than it was before. 


Call 424-302-8035 for your consultation and meditation analysis today. You might need one of my spell packages to help you remove some of the obstacles in your way preventing you from being with the object of your desire. 

Samantha Phillips
Can you really forgive them? ChEating, lying & betrayal
By Isabella Phillips

By Isabella Phillips

Forgiveness is a tricky subject for everyone. Some people are willing to forgive a lot more easily then others. While most of us can forgive the better question is whether you can forgive and then move on…


You say you can let it go but are you really letting it go or are you going to use what your partner did against them to get what you want for the rest of their lives…

If that’s the case then it’s not truly forgiveness now is it? 


Now I’m sure you are reading this saying to your selfs “ well I got him or her back and told her or him I can work past it and in exchange he or she should take my shit!”

For example: do you have a friend who is hosting a dinner party, your significant other happens to hate this sad friend. Do you want to go with them to this dinner party but they refuse. In order to get your way you then throw your partners infidelity or betrayal in their face, which then promotes guilt and persuade them to give you your way.

Now I’m off for a little persuasion here or there, I am guilty of using these particular tricks myself within my own relationship however when using a huge mistake against the person you love to get your way over something so insignificant you can later cause a huge amount of resentment and a bigger problem than what you originally started with. It’s almost a form of emotional abuse.

now I’m all for a little persuasion here or there, I am guilty of using these particular tricks myself within my own relationship however when using a huge mistake against the person you love to get your way over something so insignificant you can later cause a huge amount of resentment and a bigger problem than what you originally started with. It’s almost a form of emotional abuse.

now now I know what you’re going to say, “ well they emotionally abused me when they betrayed me and my trust” and you are right but there’s a difference between mistakenly doing this and purposely doing it.


If this is the way you think then you shouldn’t even bother staying in the relationship because chances are, you will eventually make your other half resent you or worst hate being with you but also making them feel obligated to be with you.


Imagine you made a mistake, but then you own up to it and the person you hurt, decides to forgive you. But then as you continue on with the relationship you find that this person treats you like dirt and that by coming clean all you got in return is a whole Lotta grief, guilt and a shit ton of regret and resentment towards the person you love. 


Listen we all make mistakes, but we do learn from them and if the person you love has hurt you give them the chance to prove that it was just a one time thing. No matter if it’s cheating lying or going behind your back and doing something that you both discussed was not worth doing. If you’re going to forgive them then open your heart and decide to let the past, be the past. 



The difference between forgiving someone once and letting it go, And constantly having to ask yourself if you can forgive over and over again is very different. If you’re finding yourself in a relationship where the person you love is constantly doing something to betray your trust that I think it’s time for you to reevaluate your relationship. It might be time to open your eyes and start See the relationship for what it truly is, Broken. Now often times something that is broken or even shattered is very hard to fix. But if you’re continuously forgiving someone that honestly doesn’t deserve it or hasn’t learned from their mistakes then you need to ask your self is this really love? Does this person really care for me? 


Now you might have that answer already but if you don’t feel free to call me (424)302-8035 

The meditation analysis that I offer can really help decipher through all these questions and get us down to the answer of whether or not you are in the right relationship and if this person is worth The rest of your life! 

Samantha Phillips
4 tips how to make him want you more…
By Isabella Phillips

By Isabella Phillips


Hey ladies! Welcome if this is your first time here, thank you for clicking on my blog.


Here we are going to discuss 4 tips on how to make any guy want and like you more! Now listen this not going to be a magical solution for every relationship however if these tips are used correctly it can make practically any guy become intrigued, more interested in and more into you. Just keep on reading.


Most of my female clients issues stem from insecurities, now it may shock you to find out that most men are even more insecure around you then you are when next to them. They are just so damn good at hiding it that you’d never be able to tell.

Men are programmed so differently then women. Most of them taught that emotions and getting close someone is bad, that getting close means your acting like a girl so when they actually start to fall for a girl they can get super uncomfortable with their own male insecurities.


Here’s the tips now on how to get him to fall for you and want you more with out his issues getting in the way.



  1. Feed the ego.

  2. Leave a little mystery for him

  3. Be independent



Number 1. Feed the ego

Like I said men have insecurities so it’s time to take a step back and see how we can rearrange some of these things, get him to open up more to you as well as make him feel the best when he’s around you. The best way of going about that is complementing your man. Make him feel strong, masculine and powerful when he’s around you, make him feel like no other woman has made him feel ever.


Example #1: You make me feel so safe when we’re together!

Example #2 you have such a strong determination in life it’s so inspiring.


Notice that we’re not talking about compliments in a general sense but rather things that can truly touch on subjects that No one else has. Making him feel like a superhero next to you will intern be a like a drug for him.



Number 2. Ladies! We are all guilty of giving way too much away. We get so caught up in a new relationship that we start texting night and day about every aspect of our lives and leaving very little for him to be interested in when you guys are actually together. Leave a little bit more mystery stop texting him back literally the minute you get a text from him. When you see that he’s texting you, give it some time and think about what you are saying and leave a little bit of a ? At the end of each conversation giving him a reason to want more. When you don’t give it all away through text it leaves so little to actually talk about when you’re together and even less for him to be interested in. Basically, stop sending book long messages explaining your entire day through text message.




Number 3.

I’ll leave you on this last note, be an independent woman. A man will find you so much more interesting if you have a life outside of your relationship with him.

One of the issues but men deal with is fear of being suffocated in a relationship and tied down. If you show him that you have your own life outside of your relationship with him you are basically showing him that he is a A portion of your life but not the reason why you exist. Contrary to what you might believe but men really don’t want to be the center of your reality. They enjoy their independence as much as you do so it’s OK to have a partner in life but remember they are your partner not your reason for breathing.



Although these tips are going to be very helpful in getting him to like you more and want you more there are always other options to kick it up a notch with my love spells and services that I offer. Please feel free to give me a call for a free consultation and how to take your relationship to the next level. Although these tips are going to be very helpful in getting him to like you more and want you more there are always other options to kick it up a notch with my love spells and services that I offer. Please feel free to give me a call for a free consultation on how to take your relationship to the next level at 424-302-8035.

Samantha Phillips
Are touchdowns on tv putting your relationship on time out?
California love spells psychic football

If your like most girlfriends or wife’s of a football lovin’ man then you probably feel like between the months September and February that, fantasy football made you think that your relationship was just a fantasy?


Ladies, you are not alone! I am a busy woman. Between work, kids, cleaning and cooking along with everything else in life.  Usually by the time I do have free time to spend with my hubby he’s always busy with what? FANTASY FOOTBALL! I mean it feels like Tom Brady & Patrick Mahomes have a better relationship with my man then I do! Like wtf? 


For example, sitting down next to my husband after a long day, I ask him a series of questions getting the brushed off version of an answer because god forbid we take our eyes off the Television for a second in fear of missing one of his leagues players score some points.... 


I get it girls, we all deal with it but what I have come to realize is this... There is no use in being upset about it. What we have to do, instead of trying to steal the attention back from the NFL and Fantasy Football is set a schedule with your guy. 


Tell him that he can only have his football days if you and him have date night at least once a week and on those nights he cannot bring or look at his own phone and there shall be absolutely NO mention of Trades, touchdowns, running backs, quarterbacks, points or value of players during any point of the evening. 



Oh, and if you’d like to take this to another level. You can even go as far as to type and print out a cute agreement to which you will both sign and date. Tape it to the fridge and remind him one day prior to your agreed date night that he must prepare. 


Don’t feel bad if he forgets or even if he seems a little draggy about it all, I’m sure once your both in the bedroom at the end of your date night he’s gonna feel like he scored the winning touchdown in the Super Bowl! 


If you continue to see problems even after this little trick feel free to give me a call at 424-302-8035 for further assistance in guidance. It’s not always as simple as communicating with your significant other face-to-face, sometimes we all need a little extra help however that is OK.

Samantha Phillips
Lost yourself in your relationship?

Written by Isabella Phillips.

Well since you’ve found your self on this blog post I’ll assume that you are here because you feel like you’ve lost your self in your relationship...

Well, I’m here to tell you that you my dear are not alone.

So many people get to this place for so many different reason but the biggest of them all is truly because you love the person you are with and you do whatever it takes to be with that person. Including changing to become the person that He or she wants you to be or who you think they want you to be...


Let me start off by saying that this is so normal. So many people ask this question as why this happens and how you can change it. Well let’s start with the “why” first.

Reason why number 1.
Your scared 😱. You might be feeling insecure about your self whilst being in this relationship. This could be due to your current partner or an ex, making you feel as if you aren’t or weren’t good enough at some point during the relationship and as a human you naturally believe it because it’s so easy to believe the worst in your self.

Solution number 1.
Take a step back now to reflect on this, is what he or she did or said really true or valid? The answer is more than likely no, the fact that you even feel lost or distress about it is proof enough that you are truly a good person. You are working on your self. And that is a great quality but getting lost is the problem. You don’t need to change everything about who you are to be in a relationship, and if the person you’re with makes you feel this way then they don’t deserve you, your time or your love. The saying is true their are plenty of fish in the sea! But if was an ex that made you feel like this and it’s effecting your current relationships then it’s time to realize they are an ex for a reason, they don’t deserve your time or to have any power over what you do now or in the future.

Reason 2.
You are a co-dependent person. Hate to say it guys but this world is made up of a lot of codependent people who constantly put others happiness before their own. If you find your self feeling unhappy unless you somehow gave the literal shirt off your own back to someone even if it made you freeze to death then it’s time to realize you have become co dependent on your partner. You have really given this relationship your all and probably finding your self in a place of emptiness now because of your codependent ways. Time for change... read on!

Solution 2.
It’s not selfishness it’s self care! Stop and understand that it’s time to put your self first. I know I know, you’ve read all the self help books, probably gone to a yoga class or two, maybe your even seeing a therapist but you still can’t get where you want to be in your emotions. Well it’s because you aren’t keeping it up. You need to make “treating your self well” a habit. You cannot expect to change over night. True permanent change come over a period of time in which you’ve trained your mind, body and spirit that you deserve to be happy too! You have to push your self to fight for your self. Your beliefs. What makes you happy! Now this won’t be easy, your going to feel guilt, like something is wrong or that your doing something that’s dirty even. You might even shock your partner by this new way of life, they might not like this new person you are becoming at first but I promise over time that if they truly love you, they will accept and even embrace this new you! You just need to stay consistent and patient with your self. Let go of making everyone else happy first. Live for you!


Reason 3.
You don’t want to be alone.
You are terrified of being alone in your own thoughts, with your own emotions or generally in life. You’ve probably spent your whole life jumping from relationship to relationship wondering why it isn’t working for you and why is it you seem to find yourself feeling more empty inside as you continue to move forward. You never really took the time out to really get to know yourself on the inside. You truly don’t know who you are.


Solution 3.
There’s never a better time to start getting to know yourself in today! The best part about feeling like this is that at least you’re making the necessary steps needed in order to find yourself. Feeling lost is not the end of the world. We all get lost, lost in translation, lost in our relationships and even lost in life but the best part is is that change is inevitable. Whether you’re a person that believes in Evolution or not, it is bound to happen. The best thing you can do is start taking time that you can spend alone. Alone in your own thoughts and start to realize what it is that makes you happy. Start to realize what makes you tick. You need to start spending time alone so that you can get comfortable with it. Talk about it with your partner, Start open up and make them realize that this time alone is not really time apart but it’s a chance for you to better the relationship in so many different ways. You will learn to love better and stronger, you will have a better idea of what brings you joy and you’ll be able to finally put that first. You’ll do better at work, you’ll be a better friend, you’ll make more money, have a better sex drive etc.

Thanks for reading today’s blog post and I hope it helps!


Take back your life and take back your relationship! Take back the power you have deep inside! If you guys have any other questions or need further help definitely give me a call so we can do a consultation where we might find that there is a specific spell or service that can help you finally make this change and help you feel better! Contact at (424)302-8035

Samantha Phillips